EMPATHY... Know it and control it

As a healer you deal with people’s pain and illnesses, mental, emotional problems, dark entities, cords, implants and so on.
But if we are unaware of our ability it can create problems to us. Empathic people need to pay attention to and honor what they feel.
Picking someone’s aches or pains as a healer or sensing dark energy as a booster its normal to an empath but it is usually just a passing phase and should not persist. You should not absorb someone’s pain or let yourself corded, letting their distress be the source of your pain and stress.

Sometimes it is difficult to determine whether the feelings you are picking are yours or someone else’s energy. Empathy is one of the most difficult abilities to control. If you don’t know how to control this ability you become depleted of energy and your immune system will become weakened, and eventually you’ll become ill. You need to get acquainted with your abilities, honor and acknowledge them.

As a booster/healer you need to know how to clean your aura by taking etheric showers or baths on a regular basis, clean your charkas and learn PROTECTION.

Disconnect from others. Its okay to love people and send loving energy thoughts but make sure you don’t take their pain. Visualize disconnecting yourself from others.

Wash your hands frequently. Washing helps breaking the connection with the one you worked on.
A shower before going to bed will clean not only your body but your auric field.

Protection is a MUST whether is in a form of a prayer, boosting, visualization or just a thought.

Fresh air, energy from sun or trees, proper diet and exercise will help. Contrary, lack of exercise improper diet, use of drugs alcohol, cigarettes, negative thinking, lack of oxygen, will tear your aura.

Empathy when developed and control can be used as a powerful psychic tool.

I remember many years ago when I was talking on the phone with a friend of mine I would always get depleted and had to go to sleep after the conversation. She used to tell me how nice and such a good friend I was to her and she would always feel better after talking to me.

I don’t remember which book I read about empathy and how to use psychic self defense, but here is the technique I used and it worked !!!

I crossed my feet at the ankles and folded my arms acrossed my solar plexus. I remember crossing my fingers as well, I don’t think that was in the book but I needed to be protected.. Hey!! It worked really well. My friend suddenly told me that I was cold towards her.
She is not a bad gal, but she was just “stealing” my energy without even knowing it. Later I realized that I needed to actually pray for her to help her get her energy from another source and not from me. That time I din’t know about boosting, but boosting togheter with praying works.

It is not fair to get depleted, there must be an exchange of energy always when you interact with someone. You give some energy , they will give some energy, as simple as that.

The meridians of the body terminate at the toes and fingers. Crossing feet and hands, you close the whole body energy circuit.

Another trick is look into someone’s left eye rather then right eye. The right eye is the sender of mental energies and if you look at it you can be more easily influenced.

Another one is do not face someone who can influence you mentally or emotionally, the solar plexus is the main point of entry, if you face someone better cover your solar plexus.